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29/01/13 Laaf #48: Jurassic Park 20 Years Later or “Id’s Getting Hot in Here, So Take Off All Your Morals”

LECTURE CREATED AND GIVEN BY MATT C. (AKA PROFESSOR FAIL)

TOPIC: Reflections (Psycho-analysis of) on the 20 year Anniversary of “Jurassic Park”

FILM: “Jurassic Park”

DATE GIVEN: Saturday, January 15th 2013

Professor Fail brings us a lecture and a film asking thrilling questions like: How Jurassic Park hold up as a film 20 years later? What happened to the kids in the film? What do I notice about the film now as an adult (aka how can i sound academic and pretentious to get some laafs)?

***click on the first thumbnail image below to get the enlarged slide show of the lecture.

Tags: dinosaurs, film, freud, id, island, jurassic park, jurassic park 20 year anniversary, psycho analysis

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07/01/13 4 Stages to a Serious Relationship

by dave k.

i have a theory, garnered a little from my personal experience, that there are four stages toward a serious relationship or at least how you know you’re moving forward in a relationship. alright then, here it goes…

STAGE 1: THE BEST FACE

this is often the first stage in a relationship where you put on your best face. you know, looking and sounding as interesting as possible and getting all dressed up. this, of course, is fun but you can only keep this act up for so long. if you’re getting more comfortable with each other over time you will probably move into the next stage.

never under-estimate the power of body language…hah!

alright he’s got game but remember it’s just game

STAGE 2: THE REAL FACE

this is when you show your real face, even the parts about yourself that you know aren’t pretty (according to steve harvey this will come out after 90 days of being together whether you like it or not). if even after seeing each other’s issues, you’re still willing to stay and work them out your relationship may be ready for the next stage.

somehow i cannot hide who I am though i’ve tried

oh dream maker, you heart breaker

STAGE 3: THE FACE YOU DIDN’T KNOW WAS A PROBLEM

this stage is tough because you partner inevitably will have to bring up issues that you didn’t know were issues. these might be habits that have long been a part of your life that you’ve been able to get away with or that others haven’t been bothered by, least of all you. yet, the fact remains that they are issues that bother your partner. you will have to decide which is more important: continuing to live the way you do or making changes because it’s important to your partner. if you both acknowledge your thus-far-unknown-to-you issues AND you acknowledge the need to change then you may be ready to love another human being for the long-haul (i.e. a serious relationship i.e. marriage).

you know, there’s something there that wasn’t there before

you make me want to be a better man

STAGE 4: FACING IT ALL TOGETHER

even after marriage, life is not all happily ever after (sorry to rain on your enchanted parade). life happens. change happens. throughout all that, to be a serious relationship of true love, you commit yourselves to each other and strive to always become better together. to get to this point i make the assumption that you agree what the “better” looks like (and in fact this point in particular is what research into long term couples has shown is indicative of longevity in a relationship). to keep on loving through all the seasons of life for better or worse, for richer or poorer, though sickness and health…to be faithful…this is where you can experience real intimacy: a place where you are fully known and still loved.