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3 SENTENCE REVIEW

With powerful acting, beautiful cinematography, and a nuanced script – Minari is a slower paced film but each scene is filled with meaning not only in what is said but what remains unsaid, true to Asian aesthetics. The film follows the story of a Korean immigrant in America who moves his young family to start a farm in Arkansas, much to the shock of his wife, the added responsibility of his eldest daughter, and the wonder of his young son who must also learn to live with his quirky Korean grandmother who moves in with them. In turns touching, laughter-inducing, and heart-breaking, what sticks with me the most is the way it captured so honestly the struggle between pursuing ones dreams and keeping a family together.

REFLECTIONS ON THE ASIAN AMERICAN EXPERIENCE

As a child of Asian-American immigrants there was so much in this film that resonated with me (and it’s not just because their son was named David! Haha!). The struggle of immigrants to make it in a world that is not made for them. The children of immigrants who must honor their cultural upbringing but also must negotiate living in the only country they have ever known. The savoring of special foods others may not understand. The ignorant, unintended as it may be, slights one must endure as the cultural outsider. But the film does not languish in Asian-American stereotypes and tired immigrant story troupes but subverts them by taking seriously the perspective of the immigrants portraying them in the center of their adulthood, not as aging or irrelevant but as fleshed out three dimensional characters with hopes, joys, fears, flaws, and deep disappointments. The film as a whole is not focused on race but rather on telling the story of one family of immigrants trying to make it in one corner of America. It is worth noting that the director, whose story the film is loosely based on, as well as the actor playing the father, both were entering into the story of their own immigrant fathers. As a young father myself it helped me to understand more and step into the shoes of my father who I recently lost – the struggles he likely had to endure and the fights I remember he had with my mom. Although even the film industry may still not view it so, this too is a very American story, especially as a nation that is made up of immigrants.

REFLECTIONS ON THE BIBLICAL ALLUSIONS IN THE FILM

There are a number of biblical allusions, if not explicitly Christian images, in Minari. In the beginning of the film the father refers to the farm as a “garden” and the grandmother points out the importance of the greater danger of a hidden “serpent”. All of this recalls the Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden as well as the threat of hidden things in the beginning of the biblical story. Indeed much of the film is situated in the struggle to live off the land and ward off that which would seek to destroy life. The names of the characters have a lot of interesting Christian parallels (WARNING: Spoilers Ahead):
Jacob: like Jacob of the bible, is the patriarch of the family who schemes to make a way for himself struggling with the earth that will not readily bear fruit and finds himself running from and (indirectly) wrestling with God.
– Monica: (though not a name found in the bible, a name tied to Christian tradition as the mother of St. Augustine) like Monica she is the long suffering mother who holds onto faith in God and faithfully cares for the family.
– Anne: like Anna the prophetess, who long awaits the Messiah, she too is long suffering, responsible early on, and able to see what others do not.
– David: like David who becomes king, he is the rascally runt of the litter but is dearly loved.

Two other characters in the story function as sort of flawed Christ-like figures
Paul: like the biblical apostle Paul, he is an insider that is an outsider, a little intense in zeal but sincere, coming alongside Jacob in his struggles.
Soon-ja: though referred to primarily as “grandmother” in the story, Soon-ja can mean “to obey, go along with.” She is an unconventional grandmother to say the least, who does not really go along with what is expected of her, but she is gracious to David and loves him in her own special way, and in one of the most touching scenes of the film holds David close to protect him from any badness he feels.

In Minari, like the minari plant that manages to grow in different places, we may not see everything redeemed, but we see the bonds of love that endure through the struggles.


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by dave k.

this weekend the first of the third set of trilogies, of the epic series known as star wars, smashed box office records to pieces.  here’s why i think that happened (no spoilers here).

 

3 SENTENCE REVIEW 

this is literally the most beautiful film in the series.  the tight shots and cinematography leave the audience with iconic, wondrous, and haunting images that stay emblazoned in one’s mind.  yes, the protagonist seems a little too perfect, some of the lines are heavy handed, and some exposition of new characters seemed wanting, but the movie delivers with fast-paced movement and taps into an uncanny feeling of nostalgia for something you’ve never seen before by showing respect for the original films while inverting characters in new ways.   

 

3 REASONS THIS EPIC ENDURES AS IT HAS

1. GOOD AND EVIL ARE CLEARLY DELINEATED*  

(*credit goes to my pastor for this insight) it may be the struggle to keep pressing on in the light of what seems insurmountable odds. it may be the struggle within yourself between what you know you ought to do and what you know you should not do.  we all have experienced a fight between good and evil, though we may not call it as such.  in fact, in the real world, it is not always clear what is good and what is evil as it is hidden, expressing itself differently in all things.  but in the world of star wars we have the fantasy of having the difference clearly delineated…light and dark sides, good and evil, love and hate.  in such a world it is easier to know where to stand.  we hope for such a world.     

 

2. IT EXPLORES THE PAINED FATHER-SON RELATIONSHIP

one of the most shocking reveals of all time in movies is at the heart of the star wars series (this is why i think people are so vehement on eithet the side of no spoilers or spoiling it for others) and this reveal centers on a father-son relationship.  it’s a relationship that is significant and has been storied for generations because it deals with where we come from and where we are going.  it is a particularly painful and torturous relationship for our generation as a third of children now live without their fathers in america (it may not be a coincidence that the no-fault divorce also gained traction in the the 1970’sthe decade when star wars was first released).  the father-son relationship is wrought with potential and tension: who is my father and what does that say about me? what does it mean to be a man?  when is it necessary to take a different course then my father?  what do you do when your son takes a course against you?  what is the legacy you want to leave your son?  this could be a possible underlying reason why dudes are much more passionate about the star wars films and don’t understand how the ladies can check out of the film so easily.  the father-son relationship is a tricky one and in star wars we see it unfold.  we need to be reconciled back to our Father(s).    

 

3. WE LONG TO CONNECT WITH SOMETHING GREATER THAN OURSELVES 

perhaps it is a thirst for adventure.  perhaps it is to see a world beyond our own.  perhaps it is to be a part of a something more meaningful.  We all long for something greater.  in the star wars films this something greater is called “the force”.  it is in all things and binds all things together.  in the films we see an ordinary person tapping into something far greater than themselves to do extraordinary things.  it sounds strange but yet it also sounds vaguely familiar and compelling.  some call this something greater, God.  His fingerprint is in all creation and He hold the universe together.  followers of Jesus (jedi disciples) believe that they can be filled with His Spirit (the force) to release good (the light side) in the world.  we long for the return of that something greater than ourselves.                 

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“Saving Mr. Banks” is the story of how Mary Poppins became a Disney property, but the movie centers on the unique bond between fathers and daughters.  Ariel, Belle, Mulan, and Cinderella.  Disney movies often have a female protagonist with strong ties to her father, whether living or not in the case of Cinderella.  Disney can now add P.L. Travers onto the list of female characters who are irrevocably shaped by their fathers.

Some spoilers to follow.

The movie features two narratives running concurrently.  The film begins with P.L. Travers as a child. The opening moments reveal her life as a child is filled with imagination and whimsy. We see her father, played by a very effective Colin Farrell, encouraging her creativity, and it’s quickly understood that this child will be capable of inventing a world in which a flying housekeeper could exist.  We then see Travers as an adult, played by Emma Thompson, an author on the verge of bankruptcy.  The plot has the adult Travers finally and reluctantly accepting Walt Disney’s, played by Tom Hanks oozing down-home Midwestern charm, offer of adapting “Mary Poppins” into a feature film.  She will fly to LA to work on the script with the Disney team.  The contract allows her to have final approval of the script, and it’s obvious early on that Disney will not acquire the Mary Poppins and the Banks family without a fight.  Travers isn’t ready to give up her baby.  She vetoes nearly every element that, from our perspective, makes the film iconic.  No animation, no singing, no mustache for Mr. Banks.  She even demands that Dick van Dyke be out of the picture. 

The film moves back and forth between these scenes in LA and Travers’ childhood in Australia which illuminate the relationship she had with her father and explain her strict demeanor as an adult. It becomes clear that Mary Poppins is not the baby that she’s protecting; it’s the memory of her father she’s struggling to not only preserve but to redeem.  As the narrative in Australia unfolds, it becomes clear that while Travers’ father loves his daughter and cultivates her imagination, he is the most irresponsible of dreamers.  At first it seems his whimsical, capricious nature prevents him from supporting his wife and three daughters, but it’s soon revealed that alcoholism is his main problem.  Travers won’t relinquish creative control over the production to Disney because she doesn’t want to give up the fictional tale that redeems her childhood and her father. 

The film becomes an acknowledgement of how the parents we love so much provided us with imperfect childhoods.  “Saving Mr. Banks” is about your dad and my dad, everyone’s dad and how he/they failed us and how we as children build myths around our parents to cover their faults, to redeem them, and create the childhoods we wish we’d had.  It’s very appropriate then that Walt Disney in every form — the character in the film, the man himself, and the corporation — be entrusted with adapting “Mary Poppins” and producing this film.  Who better to re-create childhood with all of its joys and none of its pains than the man who built the happiest place on Earth?

The film is a must-see for all Disneyphiles.  Even if you’re not a huge fan of Disney lore or Mary Poppins, the film is worth your time.  The film is lovingly put together, as you’d expect from a film about Walt Disney produced by the Disney Company.  I’m actually surprised that a film featuring Tom Hanks, Paul Giamatti, Emma Thompson, and Colin Farrell is not getting more promotion.  Watch it if you get a chance, and then maybe call your dad afterwards.

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